Child Safety: don’t let your guard down!

Safety for our children is among the number one concern of parents.  Yet, time and time again, I am witness to some really bad choices made by parents.  Whether it’s letting your 6 year old roam the toy store by himself or allowing a child to run through a parking lot, the lack of common sense never ceases to amaze me.

There are several areas I’d like to touch upon when discussing safety and your children under the age of 12.

  • age appropriateness
  • vacation
  • safety equipment/clothing
  • birthday parties
  • things to teach your child if lost/approached by strangers

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Deprivation and the Savage Child

mod·er·a·tion [mod-uh-rey-shuhn] noun

1.  the quality of being moderate; restraint; avoidance of extremes or excesses; temperance.

When we think of moderation, the first thing that comes to mind for most is food.  Too much of one thing, healthy or not, is not good for you.  The same can be said for too little or none at all – even something that may be considered “unhealthy.”

Other than food, there are many other things out there where moderation is healthy.  For instance, introducing technology to your children.  There are countless article and studies available spewing reasons to not have a TV in your home—it forms conversations killers, there is a lack of educational benefit.  This may be true on the over-indulgence side of the curve, but I never see mention in these studies of a moderately controlled use of television.  There are plenty of educational stations such a PBS, Nick Jr., National Geographic, NOVA and the like, providing experiences and reinforcement of what is learned (or not being learned) in school. Continue reading

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Becoming a SAHD and Facing the Resume Gap: tough decisions ahead

I recently was contacted by one of my readers asking for some advise and insight on the decision to become a stay at home dad and re-entering the workforce after years of full-time parenting.  These concerns cross both stay at home dads and stay at home moms alike. The dreaded “resume gap” can instantly send your resume to the circular file.  There really are no right or wrong answers to his questions, nor are there any easy solutions to the resume gap.  However, there are some things you can do to help.  Below is the email from my reader and my response.  Any comments or added insights are always welcome! Continue reading

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The Season for Giving: are you modeling a service attitude for your children?

As we reflect upon 2012, a part of that reflection for our family is, “what have we done for others?”  Sure, we think about family vacations, time with friends and family, gifts received, health and good fortune, but these are the things that push reflection toward how we serviced those less fortunate.  Continue reading

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Holiday Shopping Pt. II – corporate discounts not always the best deal!

Only 15 days until Christmas, and the internet is on fire with online orders.  All of the deals look so enticing, but the proverbial “buyer beware” should be heeded.  Below are some examples of “deals” that are not all they seem, along with some tips for some great, real saving. Continue reading

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